30 Things He Told Me But Can't Tell You

30 Things He Told Me But Can't Tell You, by Mischa P. Green, is the book for the newly wed bride, seasoned wife, bride-to-be and ex-wife. Green presents a number of common instances where men see things differently from women. Green, a divorcee of over 6 years, reflects upon everything that led to the collapse of her marriage in order to reveal to women things that often go unnoticed and unaddressed.

30 Things He Told Me But Can't Tell You is organized for readability, as each chapter is divided into easy to understand sections that state common “conversation topics” and what this means to the man, called “commentary,” as well as a list of immediate applications in a section called “What might be helpful.” With topics ranging from problems with girlfriends and balancing children with marriage to cheating, Green covers it all—bringing to light potential marital problems.

With a spunky common sense attitude and a writing style that is very pleasant to read, Green positively connects with readers throughout the entire book, exposing possible shortfalls in a non-threatening way. Using sensitivity and understanding, she unlocks many truths that women simply don't understand about their husbands, opening up much needed conversation and revealing ways to make marriages strong and resilient.

Green does a phenomenal job pulling the reader in, skillfully developing an author-reader rapport. She has a warm and inviting tone not unlike a close older girlfriend or sister, leaving the reader comfortable with personal topics. Indeed, this book is just what its title claims, 30 things that real husbands wish they could tell their wives. 30 Things He Told Me But Can't Tell You serves as a secret window into the minds of men that is both relevant and needed in today’s society. An absolute must-read for women today.